Side #1 - Never expose my full name, Princess D's full name or anyone in my family's full name. Never expose my address OR even exactly where I live in San Diego.
Side #2 - Never mention the name of the company I work for or any details about the goings on in the office. I wouldn't want to get fired over anything I mention here since some of my co-workers read ... HI GUYS! Plus, do you really want to read about my boring office job? Didn't think so.
Side #3 - Never post about where I am at the present moment if I am at a location of significance. What I mean by that is if I was at or going to Disneyland or staying at a hotel I wouldn't post about it until AFTER it happened.
Side #4 - Never meet people you meet online. Why? Because who knows if people are really telling the truth about who they are. Maybe everything I write about is fictional just to gain more readers. Maybe I'm really a MAN!
Side #5 - Never air "dirty laundry". This is a tough one. WHOSE dirty laundry can't I post about and WHY? Well, because no one wants to be judge by all of you even though some of you have no idea in real life who I am writing about. So, I am stuck writing about MY dirty laundry which compared to most is not that dirty, but interesting enough (I hope).
Side #6 - Never show too many photos of your kid because someone might be are trolling the internet in search of the "perfect subject" to feature on their child pornography website. Easy enough ... I never post photos of my kid in her skivvies, naked in the bathtub, or standing in front of a sign which could give her location away.
With that last side the box is shut ... but, the only one who could seal it is me. Other than my daughter, my family and my friends (real life and virtual), and my job (YES, my job makes me happy) there is not much more in life that make me feel really alive. This blog is my creative release. It is gives me the chance to actually make a small dent in this world if I can help raise some money for a good cause, make someone feel stronger, or rethink about themselves, or simply make someone smile. To extinguish this part of my life would be unfair.
To quote one of my favorite corporate sayings ... Think OUTSIDE the box. If you haven't noticed already I write with discretion. If I posted my real life story I would probably get get 40,000 readers and an article in People magazine (see the January 26, 2009 issue, page 109). I am not going to stop writing. I will respect the people who would like me to seal up my little box and see my light fade into the dull glow it used to be. But, Red Lotus Mama is not getting deleted. I am simply going to start writing OUTSIDE the box.
